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Instant Messaging Tutorial

You and I are now going to play with Instant Messaging (IM). IMing is just as it sounds—a nearly instant way to send a message over the Internet. This tutorial contains examples of what you may have on your screen when you IM (instant message). The elements and how they function are the same, even if they don’t look exactly like what is on your computer screen when you try it for real. Remember to use the scroll bar to view the entire page.

IMs are quick and often abbreviated. America Online, Yahoo!, and others offer IM services. When you sign up for IM service, which should be free, you create a buddy list or contact list of those whom you know who IM with that same service. The basic steps to set up a buddy or a contact list are pretty much the same with each service. Look for Contacts, Add a Contact, Buddy List, or Add a Buddy to lead you to where you can add to your list of IM pals.

To use the tutorial: Move your mouse over one of the sample Instant Messages below. When the arrow becomes a hand, the area becomes boxed in red and can be clicked on for a description of that feature. The description will pop up in a new window.

Click on the links below to jump to that area of the Tutorial.

Example of AOL Instant Messaging
Example of Yahoo Instant Messaging
Click here for a list of IM abbreviations

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AOL Instant Messaging

You simply click on the Address box to address your missive, click in the text area to write your note, and click on Send to send it on its way. Pretty simple, right?

AOL window

IM icon

Click here to open an Instant Message window.

Address Box

Click in the Send To box to type a recipient’s address or access your Buddy List.

Text Box

Click in here and type your missive. Remember it is an Instant Message. Be brief.

Send

When your IM is ready to go, click on Send.

Spell Check

If you want to check your spelling before you send your message, you can click here. However, since IMing is so informal and rapid, no one will fault you for some typos.

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Yahoo Instant Messaging

You simply click on Address box to address your missive.

Yahoo window

Menu Bar

Feel free to click on any of the items in the Menu Bar to see what features are offered. This investigation will pay off with you feeling more familiar with whatever program you are using for Instant Messaging.

Add Contact

Click here to add someone to your list of contacts. The basic steps to set up a buddy or a contact list are pretty much the same with each service. Look for Contacts, Add a Contact, Buddy List, or Add a Buddy to lead you to where you can add to your list of IM pals.

Messenger List

Click here to view your list of people you can send Instant Messages to.

Address Book

Click here to see a more detailed version of your Instant Message contact list.

A new window will open where you click in the text area to write your note, and click on Send to send it on its way. Pretty simple, right?

Yahoo window

Menu Bar

Feel free to click on any of the items in the Menu Bar to see what features are offered. This investigation will pay off with you feeling more familiar with whatever program you are using for Instant Messaging.

Text Box

Click in here and type your missive. Remember it is an Instant Message. Be brief.

Send

When your IM is ready to go, click on Send.

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A list of IM abbreviations

You have an unlimited amount of space to write your Instant Message, but that lengthy missive kind of defeats the purpose. IMing is all about fast instant communication. Here is a list of abbreviations you may come across or want to use yourself:

AYEC

At your earliest convenience

B4

Before

BC

Because

BFN

Bye for now

BTDT

Been there, done that

CWYL

Chat with you later

CYA

See ya

EOM

End of message

FC

Fingers crossed

F2F

Face to face

GL

Good luck

GR8

Great

GTG

Got to go

G2CU

Good to see you

HF

Have fun

HRU

How are you?

IG2R

I got to run

IOW

In other words

JK

Just kidding

JMO

Just my opinion

OTL

Out to lunch

N1

Nice one

NOYB

None of your business

PLZ

Please

POS

Parent over shoulder

PRT

Party

PU

That stinks!

RUOK

Are you okay?

SLAP

Sounds like a plan

SUP

What’s up?

T+

Think positive

TSTB

The sooner, the better

TU

Thank you

WAM

Wait a minute

W/B

Write back

WU?

What’s up?

WUF?

Where are you from?

XLNT

Excellent

YW

You’re welcome

ZZZZ

Sleeping


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